Don't worry.Be Barfi!

Well,almost all of you know me, but I bet very few of you know my true identity. Now I may sound irrational but the truth about me is that I am crazy(And the good thing is I know that :p).Right now some of you must be thinking that "Abhinav jain" has gone beyond the levels of ordinary madness, but I know some of you are kind enough to wonder 'why'.And this blog post is only for those kind ones who are willing enough to read and give it a thought.

I was supposed to write a movie review, you know, but I thought, then,I am not matured enough to behave like a strict movie critic.So,what to write and what not to, that is the question. Let’s just start from the beginning and write what seems worth writing, isn’t it?But yes,it is definitely not a movie review.

And finally we ran away from college to watch the most awaited movie of this season i.e."Barfi".Yes,it was my suggestion and I was already being punished for giving this suggestion.Ass is still in pain(i mean literally :D).When I asked this question to my friends:”Haan toh ab batao kaise thi movie?(How was the movie?)

The monkey like grin on their faces say it all.Not a single person in my group liked it,except me.I am always the exception.And this becomes the reason for this blog post.Alright,I like the movie(i guess you already got the hint).The question arises why?? And there are many factors.

Firstly,I like the concept,the whole theme of the movie.Many people had a problem with the length of the movie but honestly,I could have stayed in Barfi’s world even longer,its so much fun.Yes,obviously it is a slow paced movie but it is definitely not boring.Cinematography,picturisation and awesome direction by Anurag Basu will surely gonna make it a huge success.

Secondly,the simplicity of the characters,the emotions expressed via different scenes in the movie,concept of trust,concept of friendship and its loyalty test,concept of love(Yes,the unconditional and selfless love),everything is illustrated so nicely and beautifully.And of course,awesome performances by Ranbir,Priyanka and Ileana D'cruz.Kudos to all of them.

This character of "Barfi" played by Ranbir is the eye candy of the movie.Though he is dumb and deaf but how he manages to make everyone smile and laugh even without uttering a single word is the most noticeable point.So caring.So gentle.So adorable.So sensitive.So unique.So much heart .It is not at all superficial or over expressed.Perhaps,the look of Charlin Chaplin,the feel of jestler's life and the simplicity shown by ranbir throughout the movie added more feathers to the cap of his character in the movie.He has the stupid criteria of testing the loyalty of his friends by lamppost test,the lamppost is made to crash into a bottle on the ground and his loyal friends have to stay holding his hand following his words that the post won’t crush them to death,this way his stupidity and stubborn nature also look cute.His generous and caring nature,his desperation when even he tries to rob a bank, and kidnap his friend is beautifully expressed.The craziness and silliness in the character is not forcefully taken out,rather it comes out naturally.

Then of course the character of an austistic girl played by Priyanka is yet another attention seeker.Her innocence and shyness is beautifully expressed.The way she never allow the strangers to touch her,her grabbing of her dress as protection, her averting of eye contact,her whining and screaming loudly and almost everything about the character is so truly illustrated.

Ileana's beautiful eyes and her smile will compel people to update their crush list,no doubt. Her simplicity,her innocence,jealousy,her internal conflicts,her obligation to respect her parents and beautiful songs shooted in the garden of Darjeeling conveyed every emotion that needs to be conveyed.

Overall,the most complex message came out so simply,truly and beautifully without any kind of exaggeration.Some people live for their personal pleasure.These are the people who do what fun is,what is enjoyable and not what society might wish them to.Not everyone is gifted,not everyone is talented,not everyone is born legend.No one is perfect.We all are imperfect in some way or another.We have our drawbacks and negative aspects but it does not count.It does not stop us from loving each other. Imperfection is not the obstacle,our mentality is.We need to broaden our vision.It's all about how you take life,it's about how you live,how you learn,how you perceive,how you deal with the odd situations. The dumb and deaf character in the movie named "Barfi" truly inspires.

The unconditional and selfless love depicted by the duo in the movie will definitely compel viewers and spectators to burn their brain cells.It depicts the true value of generosity and emotions, specially the nose-kiss scene is so adorable which is indeed a unique element,at least for me as I've not seen it before anywhere, and the best thing about the movie is that it has a "Happy Ending" which you rarely find in romantic love stories. It simply says count on to the lives in one moment, not the moments in one Life.
Live a big life, live life King size,and not a Long and Small one.Don’t worry.Be crazy.Be passionate.Love others and let yourself be loved.Be Barfi!! :)))

 

P.S. Did I mention that it has the most soulful,melodious and beautifully composed music along with great and inspiring lyrics.Here is a glimpse of it !

"..Itthi si hansi

Itthi si khushi

Ittha sa tukda

Chand ka

Khwabon ke

Tinkon se

Chal banayein

Aashiyaan..... (Repeat once)

Dabe dabe paaon se

Aaye haule haule zindagi

Hothon pe koonti chadake

Hum taale laga ke chal

Gumsum tarane

Chupke chupke gaayein

Aadhi aadhi baatein yeh

Aaja dil ki ye zameen

Thoda sa tera sa hoga

Thoda mera bhi hoga

Apna ye aashiyan...."

~Sayonara!

The Wayfarers!

..Sometimes the journey itself is the destination.They love their journey.Their journey to quench the thirst of knowledge,their journey in search of love,happiness and peace.They keep wandering,alone along the road,and smiling...The wayfarers,the wanderers...

...We live in a world of fantasy and dreams, where most objects are inflated beyond recognition.Fake world,fake people.Lost and corrupted souls.A world where true love does not exist,a world which live on biological needs,a world where love doesn't suffice,a world which demands war and bloodshed,a world which betrays.They love their journey,they keep wandering in the same world.They keep wandering,alone along the road,and smiling...The wayfarers,the wanderers...

...Life is all about loving others.We need to just keep on trying.It is not about how others are loving us - but rather about our loving others.Life's jagged pattern is a chiaroscuro,and  happiness bathes  in these extremities.They experience its madness.They dance,they tumble and fall, they don't cry,they don't complain,they stand up and join the tune again. They don't let themselves bring down by sorrow or pain,ever be faithful their life is not in vain.They keep wandering,alone along the road,and smiling...The wayfarers,the wanderers...

...They keep their journey going.They never make enemies.They don't keep grudges.They believe in building bridges.They are the messengers,the harbingers of GOD,If they don't build bridges, how will we get peace on earth? If they don't spread love, happiness and peace, how will we get harmony and brotherhood on earth?

If they don't, who will???

And they are still wandering, alone along the road, and smiling...just following the faded footprints..They face the pain due to thorns in their path,they consider the ache,they neither curse the path nor the thorn, they dance in the rain, they wander insanely,silence is their virtue,and so the wayfarers are the eternal preserver...

But why is there a need ??why is there a need for suffering?? Is it their responsibility ?? Is it a part of their journey ?? Is it what life's all about?? Or it is something else…something more enlightening..or something more diverse..

Hell..Am I contradicting myself ?? Am I going to extremes?? Perplexed?...Always a question! Always a mystery!

Sometimes journey itself is a contradiction! :D 

Wayfarers!

P.S. Pardon me if it is bit confusing or too sombre.For it's just a pigment of my imagination.I've never tried this genre before as it is not my forte,but I guess it still conveyed the main thought :)

P.P.S. I tried my best  to maintain the rhythm and give it a poetic feel but unfortunately I'm not a poet, so once again pardon me if it's not up to the expectation.Alright,I'm too modest! ;):D  

~Sayonara!

In Pursuit Of Happiness!

Some days sunshine doesn't help.Pain persists.When in pain,LAUGH and blame it on stars and planets and even if this doesn't work then write.Simply write.Boys are always cheerful (I'm not a male chauvinist.I'm not a sexist :D #JustSaying :P).You will never find a single boy crying and whining for little things.But life is so harsh sometimes.Things go wrong.People blame you for the things you are not at all responsible for and when it happens altogether it becomes difficult to bear the pain.Boys are born with this attitude ->Who needs it? Who cares? I'm not gonna look back and why should I.On the contrary,they are weak,not physically and mentally but emotionally.They will never accept it,NEVER.But deep down they know they are.But that's not the issue.Pain makes us stronger.It will help us to make ourselves more stable and eventually grow into a better individual.

Well,this post has nothing to do with boys and their inbuilt qualities (Pun-intended :D).It's more about Happiness.When I scroll down,I find my blog jam-packed with negative posts.The only thing that strikes my mind at this particular instant is to make use of "DELETE" option which I often use when active on social networking sites.I consider myself as one the most optimistic,confident and cheerful person who loves himself for all the little qualities he possess.Love yourself,embrace yourself as the perfect(Though,perfection is a delusional myth and it varies according to person's mentality) and others will return that love.And then only the search for love and happiness is worth while (At times,this self-love turns into obsessive love,yes indeed :P)But still that little silliness makes me happy.I am not at the zenith nor I had accomplished anything big but whatever i had done has been the outcome of that *little silliness*that always sparkled me.

When people were playing Farm ville,City villa,Texas Poker and doing other idiotic things to make themselves happy and live in their world of "so-called-fantasy",I always find myself at good position because I chose the path of becoming Independent and I worked hard for it.It needs hard labour,patience and sleepless nights,if you truly want to earn a good amount from Internet.Of success and ethics,I tried my best to choose ethics.I was learning,I am still learning and when learning and quest for eternal knowledge becomes passion,you automatically become blind,deaf and dumb.Well it may not help me at present but it will surely gonna make my future bright.

Every time I log in to my fb account and find a message saying “Plz like my profile pic”,”Plz like my comment” I feel like killing that guy or a girl (Again ,I’m not a sexist :P) but then I end up doing what they say. If such a simple thing makes them happy, simply do it. It does not cost much ,I guess :P.Most of the people find it silly but your own happiness has so much to do with,“ How you make others happy”!. It is of no use to upload *stud-looking pics*,tag friends in attractive photos and do all other silly stuffs like “You like mine I like yours” :P.It is nothing but mutual sympathy :P .It’s good up to certain extent but Do you really find happiness in it? 

Seriously,I don’t and hence I never did it though I have a good collection of it.I find happiness in counting the pics I’m tagged in. Uploading a photo and craving for likes is what this virtual world is all about. And hence it sucks. But then again as said before, I will do this thing as well because it makes them happy and ultimately it will make me happy.:D 

Happiness is not full stomach , it is *contended mind*.It is a kind of feeling. It is a kind of satisfaction. ”Being ME” is once again a kind of happiness. And people just don’t understand this simple thing which makes me Happy,once again (For no good reason :P).Pardon me if this sounds a bit confusing or too sombre. For this is just a thought. It may sound weird but this is what I think (*wink*)

 

A day before yesterday I read somewhere “Ethereal happiness is a self-created sand castle on your personal shore”.It really sounds good. Yes, it will fall again and again and again as it is not cemented, glued, taped and walled. But you can’t keep yourself fixated over the fall. Go with the flow, try to explore as much as you can, let it fall now and then because if it doesn’t fall there will be nothing to work for, nothing to build, nothing to look forward to, nothing to prove and nothing to gain,nothing to lose.Fear will only cut your wings.Spread your wings as wind is always beneath your wings.Give it a try.Don't think of the painful fall.The habit of flying will overshadow all your pain.And without the painful fall or loss, would the final product feel worth it? And the answer is NO.A big “NO”.

Life will be monotonous and life without adventure and craziness is not worth living.I'll stick to my opinion and I seriously don't care if it sounds weird and immature :P. The painful fall is must. It’s a part of our life, part of our journey, part of a journey which always search for happiness.Happiness comes your way even when pain exists. It’s more like an asshole who always exists with you but you really can’t see it. It’s a very subjective concept that has different interpretation when asked to different people.This is what I believe and it is just a glimpse of it. I'm ending this post here considering the SEO factors (Oh yeah! I'm going to become a software engineer and thus knowledge of SEO is required :P).Lol,it's just due to time constraints.No other factors.A lot more to me.This is just a beginning.

P.S. And hence there is a need of competitors and enemies to make the castle fall and I don’t mind loving them for doing such a dirty thing. :P

P.P.S: Special thanks to the person who suggested me to write a post which truly reflects me and without pointing fingers on anyone else :D(Well,I didn't hear the latter part and so is the outcome :D) This is indeed a positive post.*Sigh*
  

~Sayonara!